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YouDay: The Coin
Read full article: YouDay: The CoinIf life was a coin, you could only spend once, how has your spending gone? Have you invested your coin or wasted it? Too much of our lives are spent waiting for the right moments to knock on our door. And even when those right moments show up we question if they are true for us. Can you identify? The coin is about beginning life and spending your resources on what empowers you and makes you shine.
YouDay: The Wave
Read full article: YouDay: The WaveA little wave was bobbing along in the ocean. He was enjoying the wind and the fresh air as it traveled until he noticed that all the other waves in front of him were crashing against the shore. โOh My God, this is terrible,โ the wave thought. โLook what is happening to all the other waves, and Iโll have the same fate!โ As fear set in, and in a state of panic, another wave came across and asked the little wave, โWhy are you distressed?โThe little wave said, โWe are all going to crash against the shore and face our end! All of us waves are going to be nothing! Isnโt it terrible?โThe second wave answered with a smile, โNo, you donโt understand. Youโre not just a wave. You are a part of the ocean.โ
YouDay: Like the Huxtables
Read full article: YouDay: Like the HuxtablesI remember when I was in high school I would always say I wanted five kids: four girls and one boy. I lived in a household of a single parent. There were times my mother played the role of mom and dad. As sad as it was I had never seen a successful African American family. So for me, Thursday nights at 8 p.m. was my time to see Black families united. As I would watch โThe Cosby Show,โ I saw what I wanted to become. I saw a Black family, happy and united, and the picture was set for me. I wanted to be like the Huxtables.
YouDay: If You Speak It
Read full article: YouDay: If You Speak ItIn the beginning, there was one word that was released into the atmosphere. The word was โlet.โ It is a powerful word with a powerful dual meaning. The word means to grant permission to something and it also means to hinder something from happening. It means that you can grant something permission to happen and hinder anything that would prevent it from happening.
YouDay: Coat of Happiness
Read full article: YouDay: Coat of HappinessThere is a story of a king who was so miserable and unhappy that he called together all of his closest advisers to find a remedy to fix his problem. His problem was he wanted to find happiness but was unable to find it in the material things he owned. He had wealth, but no happiness. He owned land, but no happiness. He had love ones, yet he found no love for himself. They tried all sorts of methods to rouse the king out of his deep dark despair-but to no avail. Finally one of the advisors suggested that they search the kingdom for the happiest man -the thought was if the king could put on the manโs coat, the happiness would rub off on him and he would be happy too.
YouDay: Aha Moment
Read full article: YouDay: Aha MomentWe all have had Aha Moments. Have you ever had an aha moment? An aha moment is information revealed to you that you already knew you just didnโt know you knew it. Itโs the answers you need living on the inside of you. An aha moment is when your spirit reminds you of whatโs already there. Your spirit is leaping inside of you saying we know this.
YouDay: Cemetery
Read full article: YouDay: CemeterySo hereโs a question for you. Whereโs the wealthiest place in the world? Well, I can imagine some of your responses. But to get to the point, the wealthiest place in the world is the place that Iโm standing right now, the cemetery. Well, you may ask Coach, why the cemetery? Itโs simple. There were books here, which were never written. There were dreams never fulfilled cures to diseases never brought to fruition. And the reason you ask is because people did not believe that it was possible for them. Well, maybe right now youโre sitting there and youโre saying to yourself, Coach, is it even possible for me? Let me answer that question. It is, donโt just live your life to exist, live your life to conquer. The grave is already stolen much from so many people. Donโt let the grave steal from you.
YouDay: My Son
Read full article: YouDay: My SonI was walking onto the set of a live talk show I was a co-host on. I received a call from my wife that the doctor wanted us to report to her office with our 19-year-old son Kameron, immediately. I told my Executive Producer I had to leave and I left. Arriving at the doctorโs office you could imagine the thoughts that were flying through my head. What was the issue? Why are we here? What is wrong with my son?
YouDay: New Day
Read full article: YouDay: New DayEvery morning when I open my eyes I have made it a ritual to give thanks to God for allowing me to see another day. I thank God for my family, friends, colleagues, and everyone who is involved in any aspect of my life. Next, I prepare my day by giving myself permission to experience a new day. By doing this I allow myself to experience the newness of a new day and all it has to offer. This is important because I release today from the bondage and weight of yesterday. This is key because so many of us treat a new day like the day before because itโs easy to repeat the pattern of a day we once experienced than to walk through the unknowns of a new day.
YouDay: Microwave
Read full article: YouDay: MicrowaveIโve always been an impatient person. There was actually a time in my life when my impatient meter was off the charts. I remember when I wanted something, I wanted it, and I went after it relentlessly. This approach was also damaging because if I didnโt get what I wanted I grew sour, pouty, and cold. As you can imagine I probably wasnโt the best person to be around if I didnโt get my way. Today, honestly I can say that this is not the person I am anymore.
YouDay: Faith
Read full article: YouDay: FaithWhen we hear the word faith we immediately think of a religious experience. But faith is greater than a religious experience. Faith is an internal law that unlocks the power to manifest and believe anything you desire in your life. Faith is the unseen internal mechanism that unlocks the unseen granting it permission to transition to the seen realm. Anything you desire in life already exists. It is locked in the faith is a living law found in your spirit and itโs the original law of attraction. Anything you desire in life will not manifest if faith is not included in its release. For without
YouDay: Rose
Read full article: YouDay: RoseI was always curious. Did the rose need the thorns or did the thorns need the rose? It is obvious that they both needed each other. We once had a rose bush in our front yard. I was walking from the car one day and was inspired to pick a few roses from the bush to give to my wife. Well, it was an experience I would never forget and I have the scar to prove it! You guessed it...the thorn wasnโt having it. The thorn rose to the occasion (pun intended) to defend the honor of the rose. Annnndddd you guessed it...I got a revelation!!!
YouDay: Foxes
Read full article: YouDay: FoxesThere was a young man who worked daily in his garden in hopes to nurture the ground effectively and bring forth much fruit. He did everything he learned from his neighbor who was an experienced Gardner. He prepped the soil accordingly, planted the best seed and made sure it had much sunlight and water. He waited patiently for the fruit to grow and soon he began to see the fruit of his labor.
YouDay: The Exchange
Read full article: YouDay: The ExchangeHonest and fair dealing is the best policy. Weโve always heard that right? But why is it easy for some and hard for others? It reminds me of a story about a boy and a girl who made an exchange of goods. The boy had a collection of marbles while the girl had candies, which were the boys favorite. The boy offered to give the girl all his marbles in exchange for all her candies. The girl agreed. The boy gave all the marbles to the girl but secretly kept the best marble for himself. The girl gave him all her candies as promised. That night, the boy couldnโt sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had held on to some of her best candies. If you have wronged someone reach out and make it right. Life is too short to allow a small thing to become a big thing.
YouDay: The Poisoned Mind
Read full article: YouDay: The Poisoned MindScientists and Neurologists have proven that every thought we think releases a chemical that flows through our body. Imagine that for a moment. Every thought has a chemical associated with it that invades our bodies and causes us to feel the thoughts we are thinking. These chemicals enable our bodies to bring to life the thoughts we are experiencing. Have you ever had a positive or negative thought and could actually feel it? You can feel excitement, happiness, anger, or fear based on the thought you hold on to.
YouDay: Anchor
Read full article: YouDay: AnchorHave you ever felt stuck? Spiritually, mentally, emotionally, or even physically? Many times we have let down an anchor somewhere along the way. Anchors are a way of telling our soul we are not ready to confront something that may be weighing us down. Whether itโs hurt, betrayal, disappointment, or even trauma. We let down our anchor and become bound at the place of our pain, and it becomes a constant reminder of where you left yourself. That explains why when we try to move forward-we find ourselves always being tugged back to the painful memories that we have tried to escape. We must face ourselves and face the internal hindrances which have held us captive. We can no longer be our own prisoners. Itโs time to confront. Confrontation is never easy but in order for you to overcome, you must face the very things that have you bound. Itโs time to pull up the anchor and free yourself from the past.
YouDay: The Limp
Read full article: YouDay: The LimpWhen walking through certain situations in life itโs sometimes hard for people to understand the struggles we are walking through. There was a story of a young boy who heard a store was selling puppies. He gathered his money and discovered he only had $3.00. He knew it wasnโt enough but he went to the store regardless.
YouDay: I Am Enough
Read full article: YouDay: I Am EnoughWhen I say to look at your life- look at the areas of your life where you are seeking more and questioning the mindset you are accepting. Can you believe that some people thought they destroyed you with their words? Can you believe that some sought to hurt you with their actions? Can you believe some counted you out? Though many people in your life left you for dead, you rose like the morning sun to take your position at the table of life.